|How Do I Tell My Husband?|
Should I, and how do I,
tell my husband (wife, family or significant other)?
Ask your spouse for his patience while you go through difficult emotional times and ask for his support. Make sure you let your spouse know that no matter what has happened, you still love him and you are committed to your marriage. It would be helpful for both you and your spouse to have counseling together and contact us. If, for some reason, you must go to counseling alone, see a female (if you are female, male if you are male) therapist!
Although it may be difficult for you at this time, you will need to show grace and patience toward your spouse and allow him to process what has happened. He will undoubtedly experience some anger, confusion and other unpleasant, but necessary, emotions before he can begin to be supportive of you and you both can begin to heal and strengthen your marriage,
How do I deal with what’s happening in my marriage?
Can my marriage be saved?
“Jesus looked at them and said, ‘With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.’”—Matthew 19:26